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However, since I first started to understand the magnitude of what happened at Sandy Hook Elementary School on Friday morning, I have cried a lot. I cried when I heard the terrible news. I cried when I went to pick my son up early from school. I cried when I told my husband what had happened. I cried when I talked to my girlfriends about it. I cried at church when we prayed for each victim by name. Off and on for going on three days now, I have cried. And this is despite going out of my way to not watch anything about it on TV or read too much about it online. I’m actively trying to avoid it, but I still find myself crying more than usual.
I mentioned this to a friend last night and she said that she couldn’t seem to stop crying either. When I asked her why she thought that was, her answer was, for me, a revelation. She said, “I think it’s because we know what six looks like. We see it every day . . . in all its glory.” And she was right. Because, you see, this friend and I both have a six year old child. I, a six year old son. She, a six year old daughter. Both are in first grade. Both, I imagine, so heart-breakingly similar to those twenty kids who were so brutally and senselessly killed on Friday morning. And we do, indeed, know what six looks like. We do see it every day. In all its glory. We see the good, the bad, and the ugly. The beautiful and the infuriating. It’s in our face. We live it and breathe it.
We know what six looks like. We know what it smells like. How it can go from the fresh scent of shampoo and soap to the musky aroma of “dirty child” in what seems like minutes. How it resists getting in the bathtub . . . and then resists getting out half an hour later. How sweet its hair and skin and clean jammies smell when it sits on your lap and asks you to read it a bedtime story. We know the unmistakeable fragrance of the occasional accident in the middle of the night caused by too much milk and no last-thing-before-bed visit to the toilet.
We know what six looks like. We know what it sounds like. How it cries and whines. How it sings and laughs. How clever it is and how much more clever it grows every day. How it sounds out words on signs as we drive past in the car and how happy it is when it gets them right. How annoying it sounds when it teases its little sister and how kind it sounds when it soothes her when she falls down and hurts herself. We know how lovely the words “Mommy” and “Daddy” and “I Love You” sound in its six-year-old voice.
We know what six looks like. We know how it tastes. How picky it is. How it thinks chicken nuggets or macaroni and cheese are gourmet foods. How much it loves candy and cookies. How it tolerates broccoli and carrots. How it absolutely abhors brussels sprouts. How it thinks french fries are a vegetable. How it thinks chocolate milk was created by God himself. How it thinks pizza is its own food group. We know that six is happy when it finds “I love you!” written on a napkin in its lunch box at school.
We know what six looks like. We know how it feels. How big it’s getting. How fast it outgrows its clothes and how it’s no longer a baby, but not quite yet a big kid. We know the weight of six in our arms. How we can barely carry it anymore, but try anyway because we can’t quite bring ourselves to accept the truth. We know how easily six gets its feelings hurt if someone says just the wrong thing or if this friend or that one doesn’t want to play with it or it gets in trouble at school. We know the velvety softness of six’s skin. We know the still-silkiness of its hair.
Yes, we know what six looks like. We know six’s gap-toothed smile and its gangly arms and legs. We see how it jumps and dances. How it twirls and runs. We know how funny six is. How absolutely charming it can be. We know six’s terrible jokes. We know how obsessed it is with “Minecraft.” We know its crooked “S” and its backwards “3.” We see how it teeters on the cusp of the world of books and all the joys of reading, but how it’s not quite ready to fall in yet. We see how six can’t decide if it wants us to stand beside it or not. We watch it take two steps towards independence and one step back towards us every day. We know how sturdy and strong six is . . . and yet how frail and fragile.
We know what six looks like. How beautiful it is. How precious. How brightly it shines with promise. How much it looks towards the future . . . toward seven, eight, nine, . . . How much it looks like forever.
We know what six looks like and can only in our worst nightmares imagine how devastating its loss in this senseless and evil way would be. We can only barely imagine the wreckage and the despair and the utter hopelessness that would be left if six were brutally and suddenly taken from us. We know we couldn’t bear life without it.
Yes, we know what six looks like. And we know that, to us–like it must be for those other mothers and fathers in Connecticut–six is the whole world.
I think that this explanation is spot on.
I have found that the #26acts have really helped me to see the love in life again. Yesterday, we did a fundraiser for a little baby-girl that died of SIDS. We shared stories of her and her family. And we connected on a level that you don’t get to do, everyday. Healing was happening. We are all effected by loss of our community members and we feel it in a way that is difficult to communicate. This is waht I have come to value above all else from my stella & dot business: the community/family that has grown from this endeavor is intangible! Thank you for being a part of my family! Whether I know you in real-life, or in virtual-life I LOVE YOU!
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As a leader in an influential social selling company, I hope to inspire many of you to join in this movement started by ANN CURRY! Since Friday, I have struggled with ‘getting back to work’. Yesterday, I realized that I cannot change anything that happened and that the feeling of no control leads to fear. This fear doesn’t lead me towards my purpose in the world, which is to spread joy, peace & love. So I struggled with this feeling, then I saw Ann’s tweet. Then I knew, that from this tragedy, a great bright light has started to shine and will burn brighter & brighter & BRIGHTER!!!
Newtown’s heartbreak has a lot of us asking, “What can I do?” Thinking about this, I took to Twitter and asked people to imagine what would happen if all of us committed to 20 acts of kindness to honor each child lost in Newtown. I added, “I’m in. If you are, RT #20Acts.”
Tens of thousands of people on Twitter and Facebook not only seized the idea, they increased it to #26Acts, to include the heroic teachers, and are launching acts of kindness big and small all over America. The acts are spreading overseas, including one tweeted from Borneo.
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Each day in December I will make a vlog (video-blog) about my trunk shows. I can’t wait to see what happens this month! Last month was a record breaker in so many ways!! We had our highest team volume, I had my highest sales & my BIGGEST $$$ paycheck!!!!!! It was mind-blowing! So I am a little late with starting this vlog marathon. I have already had 3 trunk shows and am at $2700 in sales…and still have 8 to go! This is sure to be my biggest month to date!
Today’s look is CAbi & the Olivia Bib.
stella & dot was featured on CBS This Morning with our founder/ceo Jessica Herrin! She has such a BIG VISION!! It’s amazing to see her vision come to fruition and more importantly isn’t she just so inspiring?! CLICK FOR CBS CLIP.
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This has been something I have always had to deal with. I have a go-go-GOOO personality. I am not Type-A, organized, procedural, or adept at time-management. And I think that may contribute to burn-out. If someone thinks of a way to do the mundane processes of life (ie-my husband thought of labeling the boys’ laundry baskets, rather than just mixing their clothes, or labeling their drawers-they share a room) I am all for it. BUT I don’t think of those things on my own. I have found that I can think of a million new ways to grow my stella & dot biz. And have created many different campaigns for our stylist community at large. I love social media/networking and the connections it provides. The drawback to all this, is that I don’t take the time to rest and relax. I have discovered a few things that work really for me:
working out daily
10 minute mind breaks
protein shakes (I find I eat less when super-busy)
bed by 9
And this article from Oprah magazine has helped tremendously!! The author has hit the bull’s eye! And when you distill all we do in life, what’s the point, ultimately?? Happiness, Joy, Love!! Click HERE to read more on burn-out!
Did you know our founder, Jessica Herrin, was featured on Oprah when she founded her original company, THE WEDDING CHANNEL.com? What works FOR YOU!!?? What fills you up?
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